Warning: Massive amounts of complaining, venting, self loathing ahead.
A simple question, request, desperate plea. (All jokes, ill tasted humor are welcome as I'm in the pits already).
In this world, how does a young 20 something family of 4 survive financially? I've just about done everything to help cut costs of living but absolutely cannot figure out how to have more than $5 in my banking account 4 days before pay day. We have internet, which ends in September (can't cancel without paying $500 plus the remaining months worth of payment so that's out of the question). We both have work phones, have high efficiency appliances that came with the farm (i've tested them and prove they are working fine), we use LED lighting to help off set electricity (our bill is still outrageous, $220-270 bucks a month) I've turned down the water heater to 135*F, we shop at Aldi for food, the girls are off formula, I have a low loan on the truck, low mortgage, PLPD on the van and full coverage on the truck (totaling $130 a month), home insurance is wrapped up in our mortgage, medical bills poor in as per usual, no cable or satellite tv.
I feel like we can't contribute to our girls' lives when we are just scraping by (if it can even be counted as that). Any projects I'm working on are paid for by private sponsors or by money I've made through my business, and can't use that money for home use without paying higher taxes on it.
Seriously folks, what do I do to help lower my cost of living? I spend over 99% of my income and have barely anything to show for it. I'm considering male prostitution, belly dancing or mercenary.
A simple question, request, desperate plea. (All jokes, ill tasted humor are welcome as I'm in the pits already).
In this world, how does a young 20 something family of 4 survive financially? I've just about done everything to help cut costs of living but absolutely cannot figure out how to have more than $5 in my banking account 4 days before pay day. We have internet, which ends in September (can't cancel without paying $500 plus the remaining months worth of payment so that's out of the question). We both have work phones, have high efficiency appliances that came with the farm (i've tested them and prove they are working fine), we use LED lighting to help off set electricity (our bill is still outrageous, $220-270 bucks a month) I've turned down the water heater to 135*F, we shop at Aldi for food, the girls are off formula, I have a low loan on the truck, low mortgage, PLPD on the van and full coverage on the truck (totaling $130 a month), home insurance is wrapped up in our mortgage, medical bills poor in as per usual, no cable or satellite tv.
I feel like we can't contribute to our girls' lives when we are just scraping by (if it can even be counted as that). Any projects I'm working on are paid for by private sponsors or by money I've made through my business, and can't use that money for home use without paying higher taxes on it.
Seriously folks, what do I do to help lower my cost of living? I spend over 99% of my income and have barely anything to show for it. I'm considering male prostitution, belly dancing or mercenary.