Wow, an interesting blog, and your adventures are amazing. I'm glad that things have settled down for you....I get the impression that most of the people here are cigar or pipe smokers. Being in the minority, I smoke cigarettes - I was a Marlboro smoker for years, so like a cigarette with a bit of a 'kick'. I currently use (and am trying to grow) a mix of lemon Virginia and burley. For me, at least, the burley on its own is pretty strong, and a bit cigar tasting - if you've ever had a More cigarette, it is something like that. The problem, of course, with Virginia, is that it needs to be flue cured - I've been struggling with this for the past couple of years, using an old chest freezer, crock pot, etc (pretty much following the crock pot flue curing method, as well as Stogie's memorable cozy can thread), and last year was somewhat successful. The burley is simple enough - it needs to be hung and air cured. I tried this two years ago, and was well on my way to success with it when the roof of the shed, where it was hung, blew off in a winter storm. I am trying again this year, in the hopes that I can get a decent crop of burley and virginia. My current 'blend' is 50% burley/50% virginia, and this can be strengthened or made more mild by reducing or adding the virginia (which, sadly, to me, really tastes like nothing - extremely mild, and is used to reduce the strength of the burley). So, I would personally suggest the virginia/burley mix, with the menthol tubes, rather than just the burley alone.
Just thinking.....it might be an idea for you to purchase a small shipment of the virginia and burley through the forum, get a box of menthol tubes, and play with the blend to see what your wife would like.....????