Oh, yes, I am the very perfect person to explain this all to you. I have had 5 or 6 frustrating, failed runs, and will be more than happy to impart all my wonderful knowledge and expertise about how to do this as badly as possible.
I suppose much depends on the size of what you are building - my delightful chamber is heated with a crockpot, which is good as it heats slowly, doesn't use a lot of electricity, and you can put water into it if you need to bump up the humidity. I also have a hygrometer for relative humidity, and have recently installed two computer fans, wired in parallel to a wall wart (the little mobile phone chargers). All this mumbo jumbo aside, the one main and most favorite thing that I have that - despite my utter failure at flue curing - I would never do without, is a programmable thermostat. The US guys have links on the forum to a Ranco thermostat. It only comes in 110v. I have an STC-1000:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/All-Purpose...=UTF8&qid=1415665906&sr=8-1&keywords=stc+1000
It is one of the sweetest things I own. If you click the link, don't let the size of the photo fool you - it's only about 3 inches x 3 inches. The crockpot is wired into this, and it has a temperature probe, so it turns the crockpot on and off, according to the temperature. It can adjust for heat and cooling, on two separate circuits. It's sweet as can be. They also have something similar for RH, as well, which would turn a steamer on and off in a similar way.
Frankly, the problem with a wet bulb (aside from it being a bit complicated) is that you need to see it in order to determine the wet bulb temp. Which means you have to open your container (unless you have this thing sitting by the container window). One of the things that I learned (or maybe learned incorrectly) on this forum is that they used wet bulbs before they had invented hygrometers. So, you can use a hygrometer with a probe instead of the wet bulb. Most of the charts on the forum have the conversion of whatever RH you need at any given temp. Personally, I wouldn't hassle with a wet bulb. I prefer to fail with more modern equipment....